Hes dating but im not
these things well may be true, but they’re also convenient excuses. He goes an entire night not answering your texts, but is Johnny on the spot the following morning. He’s so responsive most of the time, but then disappears for entire evenings or weekend days.
Then, all of a sudden, he pops back up and answers you in seconds.
When I look back at all the relationships that didn't work out (that I so wanted to at the time), I realize that in every case, there were early warning signs that my guy gave me that could have given me some idea of the heartbreak I was going to experience if I had only been aware of what to look for. Granted, I know that sometimes life can get it the way, and if he’s working late on that big project with the looming deadline it’s possible that time might get away from him once in a while.
So, to spare you from what happened to me, to give you the inside scoop on what can be on the lookout for, here’s my list of the warning signs that I didn't heed. But if this happens more than once or twice, it’s a sure sign that you’re just not a priority for him right now.
How they treat you when you’re around can also be a big tell-tale sign of how things are going or will go – if they kind of treat you like “yeah, you’re the girlfriend of the month, I’ll talk to you if you can make it past week 4”, then that’s a sign of what’s likely to be coming next.
It seems like a lot of guys have trouble being direct.
Maybe they’re afraid of how we’ll respond or maybe they just suck — either way, they aren’t always upfront or honest, and the number one thing they lie about or avoid the topic of is seeing other people.
He emphasizes that you guys are “just having fun.” It doesn’t matter what kind of relationship you two have agreed to be in — if you’ve said you’re exclusive then you should be. #suspicious He has a lot of working lunches or dinners.
Even if you’re just screwing around, you should be a bit worried if he is constantly reminding you that you’re just having fun. Yes, some people travel a lot for work, but watch for inconsistencies in his story and mistakes. Most people don’t have jobs that are nice enough to let them have working lunches and dinners frequently.