Rules on dating your friend ex
When she found out, she went ballistic," says Treva S., an actual women who tried to be all sneaky about it.
"Talk about a disaster—not only did I lose a good girlfriend over it, the ex ended up dumping me!
"My friend had a one night stand with my ex a few years after we broke up and I was fine with it, because I’m in the camp that what’s past is past.
You will find yourself, more often than not, comparing your relationship to when he/she was with your friend.But there are a select number of situations when you can pick up her (hopefully not sloppy) seconds, says Engler.It’s risky, but you can proceed with caution if you find any of the following statements to be true: Call her or talk to her in person (no texting here) and explain your feelings. In , Hannah’s betrayal came from Jessa acting behind her back.It’s not fun or foolproof, but it'll be so much better for her than catching a glimpse of you two together on social media. That’s a cowardly move—an honest conversation can save a relationship,” says Engler.(Even if you’re just giving her a head’s up, and not asking for permission, a frank chat beats hiding it.) "I dated a friend’s ex once and it was the worst thing I’ve ever done for this reason: we kept it a secret and we shouldn’t have.